"For I can do
everything through Christ, who gives me strength." (Philippians
4:13)
There was one Saturday
in late May or early June that I was stretched way too thin. We had
no less than 5 games scheduled for the entire day between two
baseball kids and a soccer kid. Plus, we had to go grocery shopping
and get the oldest to his second day of work. And let's not forget
the award ceremony where every single soccer player got a medal
simply for being there (forget the fact that awarding everyone makes
no one special or that we are encouraging the entitlement culture
that is so rampant these days; those are another post for another
day). After all of that, I was exhausted and passed out by 7:30-
sorry dear, you're going to have to be the one to stay up and get the
oldest kid at work because I just. can't. even. Zzzzz...
I'm telling this story
because it goes hand in hand with the lesson that Jesus has been
trying (and failing thanks to my stubbornness, ahem persistence) to
teach me for years now. Jen Hatmaker talks about it in "For the
Love" and Holley Gerth talks about it in "You're Already
Amazing." I'm sure a whole host of other people also discuss
this concept: You can't- and shouldn't- do it all. I love the quote
that Holley Gerth gave in one of her Bible Study videos: "God
came to give you life to the full not so that you could live a full
life." (John 10:10) There's a big difference between the two!
The first urges you to enjoy your life and every moment within it to
the fullest while the second packs every spare moment of your life so
full that you can't possibly enjoy anything at all. You don't have
time.
So don't judge, but I
just watched an episode of "Spongebob" called "Gullible
Pants." It seriously inspired this post. In it, Spongebob is
trying to please everyone by being in all of the places at the exact
same time. Impossible, but he tries his hardest. Bless him. In the
end, he is like me at the end of my day that Saturday- asleep. That
wacky sponge is preaching a valuable lesson in all that zany,
questionable twenty-five minutes of useless TV. You cannot be all of
the things to all of the people all of the time. Trying will only
lead to failure.
So today, I want us to
remember Philippians 4:13: "For I can do everything through
Christ, who gives me strength." We aren't called to do every
single thing that comes across our path, but we can do the things
that God is calling us to do in his strength.
We also need to
remember the words from John 10:10- "The thief comes only to
steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and
have it to the full." And because I love the way The Message
says things so much, you have to read this verse in that translation
as well: "A thief is only there to steal and kill and destroy. I
came so they can have real and eternal life, more and better life
than they ever dreamed of." Did you notice that it doesn't say
anything about packing life full in there? It says, "more and
better life."
Take a minute to think
about all of the things that are on your path right now. What's on
there with you? Which things do you have to do? Which things can you
(and should you) just keep walking past right now? Looking back on my
day that Saturday, I could have left grocery shopping alone on the
path. I didn't have to do it. We had plenty to get us through another
day. It could have waited. What about you? What's one thing you could
leave on your path for now to give yourself some breathing room?
If you haven't read it
yet and are a reader, I urge you to pick up a copy of Jen Hatmaker's
For the Love on Amazon, in an
actual bookstore, or even just at the library (that's where I got my
copy to read). It is full of advice on figuring out what to keep and
what to let go of for a season. I found it invaluable.
Have
a blessed day today and remember to be a blessing to someone else
too!
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