When you hear the word
"religious" what do you think of? Is it a good or a bad
word in your world? If someone called you "religious,"
would you be happy about that or upset?
If I'm totally honest, I
actually don't like it when people call me religious. I'm not aiming
to be religious. Religious, to me, means rigid rules, memorized
prayers, carefully laid out rituals, and a cold God that is
completely detached from me. That's not what I want for my life and
it isn't the way I've come to know my Jesus. My Jesus longs for a
close relationship with me. My Jesus lays out guidelines for me to
follow because when I don't, I get hurt (kinda like how I don't let
my kids play in the streets because I don't want them being hit by
cars). My Jesus still loves and adores me even when I screw up- which
I still do twenty million times a day. Okay, not that much, but it's
a seriously daily event. Just like I still love my babies when they
mess up, he still loves me and I'm so relieved by that.
So what exactly am I aiming
for if "religious" isn't my adjective of choice? I'd love
to see a smile and a knowing nod. I'd love to know that when others
see me, they just know I love Jesus. Because that's my aim- to love
like Jesus loves just as he asks us to in Matthew 22:39 when he said
"love others as well as you love yourselves" and again in
Ephesians 5:1-2 (through Paul's fingertips as he wrote) when he says
to love extravagantly just like God does. But more than anything that
I hope others think of me, I hope God sees me doing my best to love
those around me because it's His opinion that really counts for
anything.
Let's look at the verses
Jesus has for me to use today:
"If you claim to be
religious but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself,
and your religion is worthless. Pure and genuine religion in the
sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their
distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you." (James
1:26-27)
And also The Message
translation of the same verses:
" Anyone who sets
himself up as “religious” by talking a good game is
self-deceived. This kind of religion is hot air and only hot air.
Real religion, the kind that passes muster before God the Father, is
this: Reach out to the homeless and loveless in their plight, and
guard against corruption from the godless world." (James
1:26-27)
At the time that James
originally wrote this letter, being religious was considered a good
thing. Today, there is a bad connotation with the word, I think.
People often don't want to be called religious- I just told you above
that I certainly don't. We call ourselves other things and describe
ourselves in other ways:
"I'm a Christian."
"Yeah, I go to church."
"I just love Jesus."
"I'm on the path Jesus
is laying for me."
For our purposes today,
let's look at being religious through the lens of it being a good
thing and as a simple describer of who we are aiming to be- people
that show the world that we adore Jesus through our actions.
James actually lists out
several things that he sees as non-negotiable for being good
followers of Jesus:
1. Keep your tongue in check
2. Take care of the orphans
3. Take care of the widows
in your life
4. Help the homeless and the
loveless
5. Don't get corrupted by
the world
We talked a lot about that
first one yesterday, so let's look at the others today.
Take care of the orphans:
Don't run away screaming simply because you are freaked out by
adoption. Taking care of orphans doesn't automatically equal adoption
in every family. God calls everyone to care for orphans in lots of
different ways. You can adopt or foster, yes, but you could also
donate to someone else's adoption, do a fundraiser for someone
adopting, sponsor a child in an orphanage, send gifts using a service
like "Operation Christmas Child," pray for the families
going through adoptions, offer encouragement or to help clean their
house- I could go on and on here. My point is, we can care for the
orphans in our world in so many great and useful ways.
Take care of the widows:
Sadly, widows are everywhere
these days. So many people have been separated from the one they love
by death and it's heartbreaking. I can't imagine losing my best
friend, my husband. The least that we can do as they try to navigate
this new (and sometimes not so new) life, is help them out along the
way, come alongside them as they go through hard times (2 Corinthians
1:4 anyone?). Taking care of the widows is weeding their flower beds
or mowing their lawns. It's spending time with them, praying for
them, going out with them, inviting them over to participate in
family activities. It's shopping with them, going to church with
them, bringing them a gift "just because." It's offering a
listening ear or a shoulder to cry on. It's looking them square in
the eye and acknowledging how much it sucks that they've lost their
best friend and other half in life. It's a text, a message, or a
phone call to say you're still here. It's doing whatever it takes to
show them Jesus every single day because there is nothing in the
world that I can think that would be worse than losing my best friend
and spouse.
Help the Homeless and
Loveless: Every day in America,
we are smacked in the face with the existence of people who have lost
their homes and who have no one that really cares. But daily, we walk
past and ignore them. Still. This was an issue in James' time and
it's still an issue today. As people who love Jesus, we should
absolutely be volunteering to help out in places that need us-
homeless shelters could use donations, soup kitchens could use
workers, and food pantries need both. If you aren't in a place where
you want to or are able to get your hands dirty serving, then buy
some groceries and donate them. Check with a homeless shelter and see
what they could use, then arrange a drive to collect the items. If we
all worked together, we could do these things easily.
Don't Get Corrupted By
the World: Jesus calls us to
live in the world but not to be of the world. It can be hard to keep
your eyes on Jesus when there are so many shiny new things in the
world. But that's exactly what he's asking us to do. Focus on Jesus,
do what he would do each and every day. Love others as well as you
love yourself (Matthew 22:39).
You
know, one of the reasons I pushed so hard against studying James is that I suspected Jesus would convict me on
these things that we are talking about today. And he totally has.
Some of it I think I am doing okay on, others? Not so much. How about
you? How are you doing with serving others? Loving others?